Sunday, October 08, 2006

Marriage test

My 9 month gestation with Siemens is up and it still feels like I started yestersday. Certainly a few things have changed, I have more memories of Munich and my current job than I do of the US and INSEAD. Life also seems a little more settled even though uncertainity of all sorts lingers permanently but perhaps thats the kind of life that we signed up for. I am also slowly getting more embroiled in the day to day politics, fast becoming a rumour monger. Still have 20 days of vacation to blow by the end of the year, so currently scheming what vacation we can afford.

We got married again today. Its not as dramatic as it sounds, the Priest's sermon was about marriage woes, and to celebrate our marriages he made us exchange vows again. Priya immediate reaction was that atleast this time she understood what the priest was saying. He said there are 5 top things that most marriage counsellors say are marriage-breakers
1. Uncontrollable anger
2. Lack of communication
3. Lack of quality time together
4. ? (forgot already..)
5. Poor Spiritual life
So if some of these are already on your married life radar, act now or repent later!! (Whatever right?)

We had the Ranjans over the last weekend from London. We had a good time at Oktoberfest even though both Raji and Prasoon shied away from taking swigs from the barrel though Prasoon finally fell prey to temptation and said he need to quench his taste bud cravings, photographic proof attached. Prasoon's infamous bihari appetite stands up to Bavarian challenges, none of the sausage stands were left unvisited. Did the rounds of the tourist traps, but generally enjoyed the company and bitched about life in general. Did I mention that I met Mohit Bhakuni in India, he is getting married in December. Also met Aloke Bajpai also who is well on his way to nurturing his startup, http://www.travenues.com/ with some of his ex-colleagues from France. Deepak Punwani is as cool as ever, probably moving locations again by the early part of next year. Incase I forgot to mention, it seems like it is raining babies. Among the many, Stuart and Mallika had a baby boy too, we visited them this weekend. Both seem to be taking on their new roles quite handsomely.

Comments on "Marriage test"

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (3:10 AM) : 

The #1 thing that breaks marriages is meddling by in-laws. I think the priest forgot that.
-R

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (8:54 AM) : 

Best wishes for a happy married life, once again. I guess this is your third?
ANd thanks for conveying the secret of a happy (at least peaceful) married life. I must tell Vinod!

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (10:36 AM) : 

The US seems like a distant memory to me as well.

When I was in the US, I was obsessed with driving-I think I was putting like 15 K miles a year on my car and contributing copious amounts to the profits and revenues of big oil.

Now, I don't even remember the last time I drove a car!

Oh, the other thing I don't miss about the US is being felt-up at airport security at JFK. I don't think a dyke at a biker rally was groped more than me :-)

I do have some good memories of Insead. Drinking beer at the Aussie bar where we discussed and dissed former bosses and uncovering Mobi's humongous porn collection with Pee Are come to mind :-))
-R

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (1:07 PM) : 

Porn...tauba tauba...what are you saying R...

...Pee (on) Are

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (8:26 AM) : 

Pee Are,
I watched You, me and Dupree last night. There is a very funny scene in there where Kate Hudson discovers her hubby's huge porn collection in a box marked "camping gear".

Mobi's getting married in Dec. He'd better watch out.
-R

 

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